Judgements

We all judge

As much as we like to tell other people we don’t… 

The truth is

We all do

Every single one of us

It doesn’t even have to be with humans

It starts with a T-Shirt we want to buy, the way other peoples instagrams look, how she was wearing those boots with those shorts, what other people listen to…

It’s all there

And the people who try hardest to fit in the most are the ones who judge the most

Because not only do they judge others, but then that also leads them to judge themselves to not become the people that they keep judging.

I believe its impossible not to judge, sure we all learn not to judge others by there sex, race, ethnicity, however that doesn't mean that that makes us non judgemental people.

We judge everyday, from when we open our eyes to the annoyingly bright sun to when we close them on that friends uncomfortable bed.

That in my opinion is the weakness of this race, because it drives us all to try and be the most perfect versions of our selves, too afraid of what others  and even ourselves might judge us for. We can't help wanting to know all the dirtiest secrets about each other and when we find that out we judge the other person by it. 

Most friendships are build by bad talking someone you don’t like with someone that also doesn't like them and your friendship just keeps building even more and more the more you judge that one human being. You

Judge 

Judge 

Judge 

Until the judgments turn into hatred for that one person or thing and if you think about it… your friendship feeds off of your hatred towards something… and that is depressing.

However judgements can be positive as well,

You can judge something because of its beauty and or love towards it.

And sometimes friendships are built upon positive judgmental. You

Judge

Judge 

Judge

Something until you both fall in love with it, every idea behind it and that way, your friendship is based on love

So the next time you want to make your self believe that you are not a judgmental person… stop because you know you’re lying.

Just try to make most of your judgments positive.

xx