How We See People

So the other day I was thinking deep thoughts, like I usually do , and I became more aware of the fact that there are two different ways that we exist: 

1. the way we feel we look like/ should look like
2. the way we actually look like

Now this may not be that important to some but to a lot of people…this is pretty eye opening. Because how many times have you looked in the mirror and been like “Really? That is what I looked like all day?” or “Really? so my make up didn’t smear off my face from this heat?” Or anything else these are just samples.

However these are small examples I gave, the examples I was thinking about the other day were actually different..more broad.

So No matter who you are, no matter how you feel about your body, no matter if you don’t like your self or you do like your self : everyone has a different perspective on how they actually should look like based on their personality in their head. 

Now I might have made no sense there but stick with me.

So sometimes I look at myself and I think “ If I could pick out a style and body for my personality the one that I have is not it.” 

And this does not mean that I am putting my self image and my body down, it just means that what I look like in my head, to myself, or imagine I look like does not match what I see in the mirror. I am almost positive at least 80% of us have felt this way.

This could be a positive or negative thing because you could look better or worse than you thought you did.

However this concept is kind of difficult when you meet new people, because they tend to see the outer you not knowing what you actually look like when they understand your personality… you probably have no idea what I’m rambling about now but as I said before keep reading it should make sense.

Think back to your first impression of someone you are very close with right now, think of how that has changed. Now have you ever had someone tell you that this person you care for and have known for a while looks either bad or good or has this sense of style that does not match the way you see them in your head?

See I believe that there are ways we see our selves in our head but also there are ways we see other people we have known for a long time. And that is because we see our own and that persons personality rather than what they actually look like. Yet just because we see other people with the personality of them that we have in our heads does not mean we see that person the way they see themselves.

This whole thing goes back to perspective and our perspective on life and it’s just a small part to show how different everyones perspectives can be and how everyone of us see the world a little more differently.

Now this blog has no conclusion or solution to come up with it was just to get more people thinking about this or getting people merely confused 

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